THE RIGHT ONE
by Quickmelt


Somebody once told me that :
"Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong...
it is best to be the right person for the one you love and start from
there...you'll always end up disappointed when you set standards and
define a "right person" for you...and don't rush things coz somewhere
somehow God is preparing somebody for you."

Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship
because you can never find love
if you insist that you are already into it.
Try to find time to really understand your real feelings,
to know who you really are,
and what you really want in a relationship.
You're right, there's no such thing as a perfect relationship, but
there's a compatible partnership that goes along with it. If you already
knew that you're too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don't give
it a try. You'll probably break it and pay for the damages you have
made.

If you knew and felt that the relationship
will not last, don't go deeper into it.
You'll just suffer the consequences
and live like hell for the rest of your life.
It's really hard to say goodbye though,
but you can't make it any better by just pretending
you still have the same feelings.
Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest.
Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed
attention. Then you will find that you have made the right decision and
you made it all by yourself.

We call it love when we can't leave someone and see
them crying as we try to let go.
We are wrong, it's just pity.
We call it love when we're too attached
and think that losing the one we love will somehow
make us weak and unable to face the storms of life.
We misunderstood, its just that we're
too much dependent to them.
We call it love when we give our whole life to them,
the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave,
no one would accept us and our past.
We are mistaken, its just insecurity.
But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains that love
isn't something you can buy or beg. It is real and existing. You can't
touch it but you can feel it in your heart. You can't find it, but it
will knock before you when you least expect it to come. It can make you
the happiest soul in heaven, but don't forget that it can also make you
the most miserable person in the whole galaxy...


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SOMEONE SED:"Isn't it strange how everyone wants a place in heaven, but they don't want to believe, do, or say anything to get there?"

ANG BUHAY SINGLE

Bakit ba tuwing may "get2geder" ang mga tao,

mapa-family reunion man or

simpleng barkada gimik,

ang unang tanong sayo ay

"May boyfriend ka ba?"

at bago ka pa maka-sagot ay maririnig mo naman ang

"Bakett walaaaaaa??!"


Hayyy, kelangan ba talagang may bitbit kang boylet sa

mga occasions na ito?

Pano kung wala talaga?

Alangan namang maki-usap pa ako sa

mga "close" guy friends ko

para mag-panggap na "kami"?!

Di naman ata tama yun, dee-bah?


How I wish na sana mas maintindihan ng mga tao

na sa mga panahon ngayon

ay "accepted" na sa society na MEDYO made-delay

ang pag-iisang dibdib ng mga kababaihan..

especially girls like me

who want to get into so many things

all at the same time.


I also wish that people would understand that

OKAY LANG AKO

and the rest of

THE SAMAHANG MALAMIG ANG PASKO...

Valentines day..

Birthday..etc.

I mean, we do get lonely once in a while..

naiingit din dun sa may mga LOVELIFE...

paminsan-minsan?

kung minsan naman ay nagmumuni sa mga

past kilig moments?

but these lonely moments

do not and will not

make our "world" stop...


Isipin nyo nalang, na kung wala kaming mga single

friends nyo,

eh di wala kayong paghihingaan ng sama ng loob

tuwing nag-aaway kayo ng boylet or girlet nyo?

wala rin kayong "instant date"

kung sakaling nangailangan kayo?...

wala rin kayong mahihila sa mall

para maghanap ng magandang regalo

for your better-half pag xmas...

o kaya pag bday nya?

at ang pinaka-mahalaga sa lahat,

wala kayong KAKAMPI

if things between you and your labidabs

don't work out.


Marami naman sa aming mga singles

ay nakaranas na rin na "ma-in-love"..

yun nga lang,

obvious ba??????????

it all didn't work out!


Pero di naman kami "bitter" o galit sa mundo?

and totoo nga nyan eh

mas lumalalim ang kahulugan ng

"love"

para sa min.

When you're all by yourself,

there's more time to reflect

and

think what you really want it life.

Mas naiisip mo kung ano ba talaga

ang makakapagbigay ng tunay na ligaya sayo...

at mas naiisip mo kung pano

matutupad ang lahat ng mga pangarap mo.

And while reflecting,

we also get to imagine that we will,

one day....

end up with someone

who will share those dreams with us.

Di naman sa nang-iinggit ako pero

masaya rin ang buhay naming mga single...

Biruin mo we can go out with anybody,

anytime..that is.

We can get into all kinds of things..

like go to the gym regularly..

or get into all kinds of sports...

or any "Self-enhancement" programs, etc...

Mejo tipid din ang buhay single

kasi la naman kaming po-problemahin tuwing

Valentines day or Christmas?

o diba ang saya?

Sa palagay ko naman ay lahat tayo ay

may karapatang sumaya ke single man

o attached ka.

I guess may kanya-kanya lang tayong

panahong lumigaya at

Diyos lamang ang makapagsasabi...

kung kelan nga dadating

and oras na yon.

So, para sa mga kasalukuyang "ATTACHED",

I wish you all the luck and happiness.

Should there be any problems,

don't forget

that your SINGLE friends

are always here for you!!!!!


Sa mga "bagong SINGLES" naman,

wag nang magmukmok!

Enjoy life....

enjoy the single life!!!

There are a lot of things that you will still
discover.

At tandaan mo,

DI KA NAG-IISA!!!

madami-dami tayo..hehehehe :)

At dun naman sa kapwa kong mga SINGLES?

I hope that we are one in believing

that we long for someone

NOT BECAUSE WE WANT TO BE HAPPY

but we long for

someone because

we want to share our happiness with

that special person

for the rest of our lives....


"There are some people who meet that somebody that they can never stop loving, no matter how hard they try. I wouldn't expect you to understand that,or even believe it, but trust me,there are some love that don't go away. And maybe that makes them crazy,but we should all be lucky to end up with that somebody who has a little of that insanity. Somebody who never lets go.Somebody who cherishes you forever."